又称待业中
老公说他羡慕我
“物质上是贫穷的,精神上是富裕的” - 我只能这么说
今天翻到以前收到一份剪报,陈翠梅写的文章,主题成人世界
题目叫“是这般这般如此如此”,特别喜欢下面这几句
到底是怎样活到三十岁的呢?我们并没有像我们想象的那样长大了。没有在三十岁前成名,也没有在三十岁前死去。原来做爱的感觉美好。原来结婚生子并不可怕。 原来朝九晚五也很实在,原来不务正业也饿不死人。原来做物质奴隶很自在,原来一无所有也很自在,原来生活也没有我们想象的那么难堪,原来成人的生活也可以 很,快乐。
通过链接,可以阅读全篇哦
http://www.got1mag.com/blogs/chuimui.php/2008/11/21/likethis
新年快乐,亲爱的朋友
if doors of perception are cleansed, everything would appear to man as it is, infinite. - blake
Tuesday, January 12, 2010
Thursday, December 10, 2009
dream a little dream...
this morning, I attended an interview for a job as music playlist programmer. the job is quite something. when I walked into the office, I'm gladly shocked that there are whole lots of spaces designated for CDs storage... haha. in other words, they have thousands of CDs... Basically, as what I've imagined, the job is about scheduling program for air passengers. specifically, music playlist programmer programs music show from 16 minutes to 180 mins of radio show. when there's hosting involved, music playlist programmer write script as well. music genre to be exposed to is WIDE, so does the languages it involves.
the only not so good thing about this job is. it pays peanuts. the starting pay is 1750. hmm... it's much lower than what I aim for.
looking at the salary i'm getting now, and how much a music playlist programmer gets. aih. I was asking my husband does my industry pay this badly?? does it? (ps: in radio,tv industry now)
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now. the part about dream a little dream. i refered to my notebook this morning too. there's a little note I wrote about the impressive questions I was asked during my previous job interview
"how do you see yourself 5 years / 10 years down the road?"
do you think this's a weird question? pointless question? sophisticated question? or meaningful question?
anyway, I think my answer for this has changed from time to time. with slight difference.
On my way back after work, I finally got my mind into this question (undeliberately)
sometime down the road, I hope I'm dress in long dress, made of light material, teaching kids piano. entry level or advance. both are good. i've been always thinking about offering discount in fee if the little boy/girl is playing enjoyably :P then will I not earn anything? haha...
for i'm capable to teach piano. it will give me a lot more flexibility to research on topics i'm interested in. maybe directing short films / documentary. maybe writing. of course, wandering around just to feel the place i'm living... oh. probably, i'll do radio hosting too, freelance, part-time.
you know what, i still dream, in 10 yrs time, able to make some good coffee. probably i'll scrap the idea of opening a cafe with books & music OR i shall make it a place i'll go in the day, where I teach piano (my music studio), and I make coffees for passers-by, and you got to browse the books, the cds, and chat with me freely if you like to
how's my little dream sound like to you? sweet?
will u one day pass by?
@>----| flower for you
the only not so good thing about this job is. it pays peanuts. the starting pay is 1750. hmm... it's much lower than what I aim for.
looking at the salary i'm getting now, and how much a music playlist programmer gets. aih. I was asking my husband does my industry pay this badly?? does it? (ps: in radio,tv industry now)
--- --- --- --- --- --- --- --- --- ---
now. the part about dream a little dream. i refered to my notebook this morning too. there's a little note I wrote about the impressive questions I was asked during my previous job interview
"how do you see yourself 5 years / 10 years down the road?"
do you think this's a weird question? pointless question? sophisticated question? or meaningful question?
anyway, I think my answer for this has changed from time to time. with slight difference.
On my way back after work, I finally got my mind into this question (undeliberately)
sometime down the road, I hope I'm dress in long dress, made of light material, teaching kids piano. entry level or advance. both are good. i've been always thinking about offering discount in fee if the little boy/girl is playing enjoyably :P then will I not earn anything? haha...
for i'm capable to teach piano. it will give me a lot more flexibility to research on topics i'm interested in. maybe directing short films / documentary. maybe writing. of course, wandering around just to feel the place i'm living... oh. probably, i'll do radio hosting too, freelance, part-time.
you know what, i still dream, in 10 yrs time, able to make some good coffee. probably i'll scrap the idea of opening a cafe with books & music OR i shall make it a place i'll go in the day, where I teach piano (my music studio), and I make coffees for passers-by, and you got to browse the books, the cds, and chat with me freely if you like to
how's my little dream sound like to you? sweet?
will u one day pass by?
@>----| flower for you
Monday, November 30, 2009
完人
写这篇的理由很简单
在公司被提点了,或者你也可以用教育
呵呵
我的导演是个好人,所以被他教育呀
感觉很ok的
比如
A教育的话,他可能会说:怎么可以这样那样,你真是太懒惰了啦
而导演说的是这样的:我直接说,以后,做这个的时候,应该那样这样做,明白?
如果我这样叙述,你都能了解我说的是什么,你的领悟力也算相当高了
总之,在电台,在公司,在学校,你总会遇到能够让你很容易接受他的评语的人
也会遇到,他说得很对,你听了却感觉很不是滋味的人
所以呀,未来,我们也变成教育人的人时,也需要下功夫想想
怎么讲,效果最好
不伤人,却又能够达到目的呢
那,标题为什么叫做完人呢?
一方面是告诉自己,永远都不会是个完美的人,所以永远都会有人继续教育你,让你再向“好”靠进一步
同样的,说回如此有智慧的导演,尽管在今天的故事是比较接近完美的人,他也有巨大的缺点,就是procastination,从来都是延迟交货的追求极致的导演
延伸来想,一辈子,尤其是在你越来越老,地位越来越高,资历越来越深的时候,跟你坦白,给你意见、批评的人,真的就是很可贵的朋友、家人、前辈了,要好好珍惜哦
在公司被提点了,或者你也可以用教育
呵呵
我的导演是个好人,所以被他教育呀
感觉很ok的
比如
A教育的话,他可能会说:怎么可以这样那样,你真是太懒惰了啦
而导演说的是这样的:我直接说,以后,做这个的时候,应该那样这样做,明白?
如果我这样叙述,你都能了解我说的是什么,你的领悟力也算相当高了
总之,在电台,在公司,在学校,你总会遇到能够让你很容易接受他的评语的人
也会遇到,他说得很对,你听了却感觉很不是滋味的人
所以呀,未来,我们也变成教育人的人时,也需要下功夫想想
怎么讲,效果最好
不伤人,却又能够达到目的呢
那,标题为什么叫做完人呢?
一方面是告诉自己,永远都不会是个完美的人,所以永远都会有人继续教育你,让你再向“好”靠进一步
同样的,说回如此有智慧的导演,尽管在今天的故事是比较接近完美的人,他也有巨大的缺点,就是procastination,从来都是延迟交货的追求极致的导演
延伸来想,一辈子,尤其是在你越来越老,地位越来越高,资历越来越深的时候,跟你坦白,给你意见、批评的人,真的就是很可贵的朋友、家人、前辈了,要好好珍惜哦
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